For the Love of Money by R.H. Legner

What if money is not avoiding you—what if it is responding to the relationship you have built with it?

In For the Love of Money, R.H. Legner delivers a bold, deeply personal, witty-as-hell wake-up call for anyone who says they want wealth while treating money like a side piece. You call it only when you are desperate, obsess when it arrives, panic when it leaves, avoid looking at the numbers, and then wonder why the relationship never feels stable.

Baby, would you stay?

This is not another book telling you to chant affirmations over an overdrawn bank account while refusing to open your banking app. It is also not a dry financial manual filled with shame, judgment, or complicated language designed to make you feel behind. This book explores the emotional, spiritual, subconscious, and practical relationship beneath your financial reality.

R.H. shares her lived journey from surviving a decade-long abusive relationship, raising seven children without child support, and relying on government assistance and Section 8 housing to making a powerful decision: her circumstances were real, but they were not her identity. After investing more than $80,000 in her education, healing, and personal development, she transformed how she viewed herself, money, love, success, and possibility—and built a six-figure spiritually based business.

Inside these pages, you will learn how inherited beliefs, survival conditioning, nervous-system responses, self-concept, and everyday language influence the way you earn, receive, spend, price, save, sell, and hold money.

You will be challenged to stop demonizing wealth, wealthy people, selling, pleasure, and your desire for more. You will examine the hidden beliefs that make financial struggle feel familiar, goodness feel connected to sacrifice, and prosperity feel unsafe or disloyal.

Through real talk, humor, reflection exercises, and spiritual principles inspired by Neville Goddard’s Law of Assumption, you will learn how to change your internal relationship with money without denying real-world circumstances. R.H. shows you how to use empowering language without lying to yourself, take accountability without blaming yourself, and honor generational hardship without passing it forward.

You will also explore how to regulate fear around money, charge for your work without apologizing, create healthy financial boundaries, give money somewhere safe to stay, and combine faith with discernment—because you can let life ravish you and still read the damn contract.

For the Love of Money is for the woman who is tired of surviving, undercharging, overgiving, avoiding her finances, and acting like wanting more makes her greedy.

You are not required to worship money.

You are being invited to stop hating it.

Change your language. Change your assumptions. Change your decisions. Build the knowledge. Create the structure. Become the woman who can receive, manage, enjoy, and hold more.

It is time to stop treating money like your emergency contact.

Define the relationship. 

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